tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18378976186300015682024-03-05T11:05:06.507-08:00Nothing But NeutralBethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.comBlogger73125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-72887166353666497762019-11-26T19:53:00.000-08:002019-11-26T19:53:01.132-08:00Gift Guide For GuysGuys are tough... it seems that they usually buy what they want or need on their own or it's really expensive, especially if your shopping for a guy like my husband. So, any time he gives me a little nugget, I'm writing it down so I can build a Christmas list for him. <br />
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Now, you should know that I grew up in a family of girls. Boys didn't really come along until we were married so what I've learned about gifting to guys I've learned from my husband and brother-in-laws.<br />
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<b><a href="https://amzn.to/37GO6mN" target="_blank">Hitch Pin.</a></b> No matter if it's 1 or 5, they'll be appreciated. Go for multiple sizes. I gift these to my farmer customers sometimes and since my husband knows that I have them in my truck, he's always looking for one.<br />
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<b><a href="https://www.duluthtrading.com/mens-buck-naked-performance-boxer-briefs-76015.html" target="_blank">Underwear.</a></b> Not just any underwear but Duluth Training Company Buck Naked underwear. They're spending and guys are picking about underwear. They also talk about underwear more than girls. Weird.<br />
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<b><a href="https://amzn.to/2OmyH3i" target="_blank">Electric Fly Swatter</a>.</b> This is just for fun. My husband is going to get one of these. He's always killing flies because we live on a farm and one of the boys at any given time will leave the door open.<br />
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<b><a href="https://amzn.to/2ONubKd" target="_blank">Wallet.</a></b> Guys need a new wallet or an upgrade from time-to-time. This one is great for carrying in their front pocket.<br />
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<b><a href="https://amzn.to/2DmiPrc" target="_blank">Tie Down Straps</a>.</b> Someone asks for these every year in our family. They are a necessity.<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2KWN2Bj" target="_blank"><b>The Great American Burger Book.</b></a> I've gifted this a few times for birthdays. It's just a fun, out-of-the-ordinary gift.<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/34qLqaP" target="_blank"><b>Stocking Hat.</b></a> No guy will turn down a stocking hat. Not to mention, we're likely the one that will be wearing it.<br />
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<b><a href="https://amzn.to/2DmjoRQ" target="_blank">Jack Daniels Beef Rub</a>.</b> My husband and I discovered this in our cupboard one day and it is DELICIOUS, especially on ribeye steaks. They also make a <a href="https://amzn.to/35FxkT0" target="_blank">pork rub</a> and <a href="https://amzn.to/37IqVsk" target="_blank">poultry rub.</a><br />
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<br />Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-6512838921454244762019-11-13T04:30:00.000-08:002019-11-13T04:30:14.790-08:00Gift Guide for Kids<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Kids...they are the fun part of Christmas and since having my own kids my love for this holiday (besides Jesus of course) has been rekindled! I love how they find excitement in EVERY part of Christmas and gifts are the BEST surprises. </div>
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Here is my round up of gifts for kids. Primarily geared toward ages 3-6 since that's the age range of my two oldest boys. Most of these gift ideas can work for boys or girls and are very hands-on to spark creativity, use up their energy and keep them busy long enough for us mama's to get stuff done...<i>dishes, laundry, go to the bathroom alone..</i>. </div>
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Not to mention we don't need any more toy tractors!</div>
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2X9Ayeu">Classic Legos.</a> I love the classic legos, actually I love the sets too but I'm only up for putting them together once and not having to go through the 50 page instruction book every time a piece falls off. At least with classic legos kids can build whatever they want without specialized pieces.</div>
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2pW5B1v">Kinetic Sand</a>. My boys LOVE this sand. Just get a big, deep roasting pan to contain the sand and add a few <a href="https://amzn.to/33EhLdQ">construction toys</a> and all of a sudden you've got an hour to yourself.</div>
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<a href="https://www.youngwildandfriedman.com/collections/sensory-kits">Sensory Kit.</a> These look so fun! (I secretly want one for myself) They have play-doh and a whole host of little toys for their little imaginations to create with! They have both boy and girl kits and <a href="https://www.youngwildandfriedman.com/collections/mini-sensory-kits">mini kits</a>.</div>
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<a href="https://bigcountrytoys.com/collections/riding-toys/products/bouncy-bull?variant=27713317825">Bouncy Bull.</a> If you've followed me for any amount of time on Instagram you've seen my boys ride these bouncy bulls. They are a perfect winter toy that burns up energy. They also have a <a href="https://bigcountrytoys.com/collections/riding-toys/products/big-country-bouncy-horse?variant=34064364173">bouncy horse</a> and <a href="https://bigcountrytoys.com/collections/riding-toys">Lil' Buckers</a> for kids under 3. </div>
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2X8czwm">LCD writing tablet.</a> These are really inexpensive and perfect for the car and church, or really anywhere that you need a quiet activity for your kids. </div>
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2rCkUwB">Sequence for kids.</a> A friend recommend this game to me and it's so fun to play with the boys. It's easy enough for Hank (he's 3) and still fun for Colton (he's 5). </div>
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2KgvjEK">Spot It Jr.</a> Another game. It's pretty fun -- easy enough for kids and challenging enough for me to play with them. Plus there are a lot of different versions of the game you can play.</div>
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<a href="https://amzn.to/33LJqti">Walkie Talkies.</a> They work inside, outside and fit so many "pretend" scenarios from hunting to policeman to hide and seek. </div>
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As I was putting together this gift guide the people that went through my mind were friends, sisters, teachers. I opted for reasonably-priced gifts because a great gift doesn't have to cost a lot of money!! Plus, I'd put all of these things on my Christmas list (wink, wink sisters... husband - if he read my blog...kids - if they could read...)<br />
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All of the items are linked below!!<br />
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<a href="https://goto.target.com/33Kry">Jewelry Box.</a> My favorite interior design rule is <i>hide your clutter inside pretty things</i>. I think this cute, functional jewelry box could do the trick!<br />
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<a href="https://goto.target.com/beB9m">Pajamas.</a> These look so comfy.<br />
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<a href="https://southernfarmco.com/collections/bags-totes/products/my-face-travel-bag" target="_blank">Makeup Bag.</a> I found this bag from <a href="https://southernfarmco.com/">Southern Farm Co</a>. and fell in love with it. Pack a lip gloss or nail polish in there and you've got the perfect teacher or bff gift! Plus the saying cracks me up because it's so true.<br />
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<a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/AppleAvenueArtifacts?ref=search_shop_redirect" target="_blank">Personalized Bracelets.</a> These are from my Etsy shop - 'Apple Avenue Artifacts.' They are an easy, personalized gift for moms, teachers, sisters, friends... you name it! And, you don't have to go with names, you can pick any word you want.<br />
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<a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/728889115/farm-womens-t-shirt-graphic-tee-womens?ref=shop_home_active_2&frs=1" target="_blank">FARM Tee.</a> Graphic tees are totally in style now. Think of your farm-girl (or non farm-girl) friends!<br />
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<a href="https://goto.target.com/WLe3O" target="_blank">Daily Devotional.</a> I need to start (and commit) to a daily devotional. I think there is some power behind it and this one has been recommended a few times.<br />
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<a href="https://www.nickelandsuede.com/shop/jewelry/leather-earrings/" target="_blank">Earrings.</a> Nickle and Suede earrings are my FAVORITE! They are light-weight leather earrings that make you feel glam and go with anything! They have a few different styles and each month they have a new earring of the month for a discounted price.<br />
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<a href="https://bethkohler.maskcarabeauty.com/en/shop/retail/96/fragrances" target="_blank">Solid Perfume </a>+ <a href="https://bethkohler.maskcarabeauty.com/en/shop/retail/98/lip-conditioner" target="_blank">Lip Conditioner.</a> Give this pair a try. Perfume can be a personal, yet fun gift and no one is going to turn down a tinted lip balm. There are four perfume scents to pick from and two lip conditioners. They are ideal for any gals in your life that are travelers.<br />
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<br />Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-84180755008485889322019-11-01T10:27:00.000-07:002019-11-01T10:27:31.842-07:00TGIF: November 1<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Happy Friday everyone! </div>
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Even though it's a little rainy going into the weekend, I always welcome Friday's because it's time to just <i>chill. </i>I need it this week, it's been a good, scary and fun week all wrapped into one if you can believe that.</div>
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I used to write an every Friday blog post titled High 5 for Friday, it was pretty popular so I thought I'd bring it back but maybe call it Thank Goodness For Friday?? I haven't decided yet, that's just what today feels like. </div>
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<i>Anyhoo...</i> here's the first installment of a (hopefully) regular Friday post that will likely be full of random things from the week. Give me feedback, we'll see where it goes. :)</div>
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<b>one || </b>part of my job in the fall is to hop in combines with customers - I start out with a two-round rule because some guys like having people ride, other's don't and I try to be respectful of that. Monday I rode with a pretty fun customer - good laughs, good information, good feedback. They are the kind of guys who make me really enjoy my job. </div>
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<b>two || </b>not quite as cool as number one but took over the majority of my week was a (hopefully) minor health scare with Gabe. I'm not good at openly sharing tough stuff that happens, it never seems to fit in a conversation well but, he had a febral seizure on Tuesday evening at daycare. It was scary - probably more scary for our daycare provider. I sped to daycare, prayed the whole way there, rode in an ambulance with my 8 1/2 month old baby and spent a couple of hours in the ER. We have some questions yet, and a follow up appointment, but if it was what the doctors say it was we are alright. We will just have to watch fevers VERY closely. </div>
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What I learned is that moms, we can handle tough stuff in the moment for our babies, for our families and for our friends but it's ok to cry your eyes out the next day. </div>
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No need to feel like you need to reach out by leaving a comment or sending a message, just do me a favor and say an extra prayer for the little guy that he doesn't have to experience this again. </div>
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<b>three || </b>I refocused and didn't feel the need to explain it to anyone. I usually feel that if I change course, I have to explain why to everyone but after Tuesday night in the ER with Gabe, I just did it. I took the time with my baby and didn't feel the need to answer to anyone. Family is always first.</div>
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<b>four || </b>The older my boys get, the more fun Halloween is. They love to dress up - especially Hank! He ran between houses shouting "SUPER CAT SPEED" and had no hesitation saying "trick or treat!" Colton asked me to dress up so, despite my hating to wear costumes, I gave it and found a mask and called myself "Super Mom!" The boys loved it!</div>
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<b>five || </b>I'm doing it - I'm giving one of my entrepreneurial ideas a go! I signed up to be a Maskcara Artist! I love the makeup and I love skin care so I decided to take on this business venture. Hopefully your willing to like my Facebook page and follow along for some skincare and makeup tips. Click <a href="https://bethkohler.maskcarabeauty.com/en" target="_blank">here</a> for <a href="https://bethkohler.maskcarabeauty.com/en" target="_blank">my website</a> and <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Maskcara-Beauty-by-Beth-104293184348744/" target="_blank">here</a> to like my <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Maskcara-Beauty-by-Beth-104293184348744/" target="_blank">Facebook page</a>.</div>
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Have a super weekend... thanks for reading! </div>
Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-89316131232528342532019-10-29T10:54:00.001-07:002019-10-29T10:54:21.743-07:00Baby ThingsMy little Gabe is growing like a weed. For example, we only spent about a month in 9-month clothes, he's now in 12-month clothes. The kid is only 8 1/2 months old!! Of the 3 boys, he's my fastest growing baby in both height and weight. He also seems to be my quickest learner when it comes to sitting, crawling, standing and all of a sudden starting to take steps along the furniture. Oh - and Adam caught him crawling up a step last night.<br />
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But... he's my baby and perhaps my last chance at having a family member that appreciates my "style" (until he can talk of course) so I have no problem getting him some new stuff here and there.<br />
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Here are my favorite baby things (and a couple of things I have continued to love) that I've found online recently. Yes, online because I live in the middle of nowhere, go nowhere, and Amazon can get here quick! #momlife #farmlife<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2PpxQQt" target="_blank">SWEAT SUIT</a>. Now that baby Gabe is stretching out I'm loving 2-piece outfits. I do still throw a onsie under this since it's cold out.<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2owEaKW" target="_blank">HEADBANDS AND BOWS</a>. I know these are for baby girls. I've had them in my cart since I was pregnant with Gabe, waiting to see if I was going to have a girl. No shame in being prepared. Fortunately, I've also had 3 new nieces born this year so I had cute baby girls to gift these to.<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/31ZqYM6" target="_blank">WINTER HAT</a>. <b> </b>Is it just me or are hats the first thing that gets lost? This one is so cute.<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/31XgjSe" target="_blank">WINTER JACKET</a>. Remember how I said Gabe is growing. Well, wouldn't ya know I have all kinds of baby boy jackets but non that are the right size. I don't put it on him in the car seat but if we need to be outside for something it does the trick. And, best be prepared here in the upper midwest.<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2po5vPQ" target="_blank">PAJAMAS</a>. You can never have enough of these.<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/36f7vdQ" target="_blank">KNEE HIGH SOCKS</a>. Aren't these the cutest! I got them for my sister's little girls. I hope she does pictures.<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2WmczIT" target="_blank">BABY BOOTIES</a>. Shoes + babies don't play well together, they never seem to stay on. But these are awesome!<br />
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<a href="https://amzn.to/2JxB9Ba" target="_blank">BANDANNA BIBS.</a> I love bandanna bibs on babies and these ones are water proof. I'm telling you from experience (my baby is a soggy one) these ones keep your baby dry! I haven't tried other brands but I do know that these Parker Baby Bandanna Drool Bibs are the bomb.<br />
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<br />Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-55791535010540250112019-10-24T05:00:00.000-07:002019-10-24T06:43:00.672-07:009 entrepreneurial gigs I have on my mind<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I have this dream of owning my own business - some sort of entrepreneurial gig that starts out as a side-hustle and flourishes into a full-time business. And, what I'm interested in doing is completely different than my current full-time job (I'm a territory seed corn/soybean sales manager). Curious what these things are?!<br />
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I've narrowed down my list to 9 ideas.<br />
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1. Own an Air BnB.<br />
Yep, I'm totally nuts but I think I'd like the decorating and organization of it better than dealing with the potential of messy people. And, the area that I live in doesn't really have an intriguing reason for people to come and stay.<br />
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2. Become a Maskcara Artist.<br />
I'm really liking this makeup right now. I'm trying to decide if I can keep up with the consistency of posting videos, pictures, etc... regularly to build an organic following so I can avoid sending out awkward messages to people asking them if I can make-over their face (I hate messages like this). My biggest road block to this is the fear of being judged.<br />
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3. Open a breakfast and lunch joint.<br />
This summer our (very) small town cafe closed and we all miss it. I think it would be fun to re-open a cafe to revive our (very) small town. It was a place where everyone sat at a table together and community was built.<br />
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I'd have a small breakfast menu - I LOVE making breakfast, and a one-item-per-day lunch menu. And perhaps, since we raise our own Certified Angus Beef open up one night a month to serve a steak meal - a farm-to-table dinner of sorts.<br />
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4. Skincare consultant.<br />
This one is more for a younger version of me - I feel like I'd need to attend some sort of medical school but I think I'd love it. For now I'll stick to writing blog posts like <a href="http://nothingbutneutralblog.blogspot.com/2019/09/needles-blades-bristles-how-they-can.html" target="_blank">this one</a>.<br />
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5. Interior Stylist.<br />
I used to have a virtual interior styling business as a side-hustle. It was fun, I might bring it back.<br />
<a href="http://nothingbutneutralblog.blogspot.com/2019/05/gabes-nursery.html" target="_blank">Gabe's Nursery</a><br />
<a href="http://nothingbutneutralblog.blogspot.com/2019/02/the-boys-bedroom.html" target="_blank">Boy's Room</a><br />
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6. Boxed Beef Anyone?<br />
My husband and I have talked about this one A LOT and it's likely going to happen in the next couple of years. We plan to finish out our own calves and offer direct-ship, hormone-free beef cuts. Everyone wants to know where their food came from these days, to know that it was humanely raised. Plus, it's a way to get healthy, high-quality food on people's dinner tables.<br />
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7. Photographer.<br />
I really enjoy photography. I'm not a professional (and taking pictures of people kind of scares me) but I do like to dabble in composition and editing. I've taken all of my own <a href="http://nothingbutneutralblog.blogspot.com/2019/01/one-month-away-from-meeting-our-third.html" target="_blank">maternity photos</a> and newborn photos of Hank and <a href="http://nothingbutneutralblog.blogspot.com/2019/03/meet-gabe.html" target="_blank">Gabe</a> plus I take all of my own Christmas card photos and blog photos. Hit me up if you need something quick.<br />
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8. Speaking.<br />
Yep - I'm totally ok with getting up in front of an audience. It's been awhile but I'm ready to give it a go again. My topic would be something around being a woman in agriculture, how to navigate this path without compromising who you are. Ok, so I have a few things I still need to work out around this topic but I do feel I have straight-forward knowledge and experiences to share. So, if you're looking for someone hit me up!<br />
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9. Online shop owner.<br />
I actually have an Etsy shop called <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/AppleAvenueArtifacts?ref=search_shop_redirect" target="_blank">Apple Avenue Artifacts</a>. I sell bracelets, graphic tees (more to come soon) and cards. But I think it would be fun to expand beyond handmade items and fill it up with things I love. Check it out if you have a chance! (use code THANKYOU20 for 20% off your order as a <i>thank you</i> from me to you for reading my blog!)<br />
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I'm putting these ideas out there as a way to say - I'm going to put plans in place to make <i>something</i> happen. My personality craves this. Right now, there are at least 2 of these ideas that I may pursue in the very near future - they just need a little elbow grease to get moving.<br />
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I'm curious... if you could choose another job, or create one for yourself, what would it be?<br />
<br />Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-52049255362862500612019-10-22T05:00:00.000-07:002019-10-22T05:00:04.915-07:00two ingredient drink combinations you need to tryI'm coming to you this Tuesday morning with some really good drink combinations you should try! They have been shared from time-to-time on my Instagram account but they are so good that they are blog worthy!<br />
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Here's one for all you coffee lovers! Almond Milk + Java Mio. A cup of milk with a squirt of <a href="https://www.walmart.com/ip/MiO-Energy-Iced-Mocha-Java-Coffee-Concentrate-Caffeinated-1-62-fl-oz-Bottle/106897756?selected=true" target="_blank">Iced Mocha Java</a> or <a href="https://www.walmart.com/ip/MiO-Energy-Iced-Vanilla-Java-Liquid-Water-Enhancer-Caffeinated-1-62-fl-oz-Bottle/145324555?selected=true" target="_blank">Iced Vanilla Java</a> Mio is a really good and really inexpensive Starbucks replacement if your an iced coffee fan. FYI, the only place I've been able to find the Java Mio is at Walmart.<br />
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If you're more of a tea type of person try this combination; <a href="https://goto.target.com/gk3Qv" target="_blank">Tazo Wild Sweet Orange</a> + <a href="https://amzn.to/32hWOEV" target="_blank">Vanilla Sweet Drops</a>. So good but without the caffeine. This combination tastes like an orange dreamsicle or push-pop (do you remember those? Do they still make push-ups because I'd probably buy them...).<br />
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In case you need a replacement for your daily soda - give this a try! <a href="https://goto.target.com/W3VvO" target="_blank">Coconut flavored LaCroix</a> + <a href="https://goto.target.com/nJmZR" target="_blank">Wild Strawberry Crystal Light</a> (this is the Walmart knock-off.) They make a non-caffeine version of this Crystal Light Flavor too. <br />
Other good LaCroix + Crystal Light combinations are:<br />
<a href="https://goto.target.com/Bo4V0" target="_blank">Lemon LaCroix</a> + <a href="https://goto.target.com/b9nrm" target="_blank">Grape Crystal Light</a> (tastes like a grape soda)<br />
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You know what Iowa needs? A really good skincare clinic, and I'm not talking a medical dermatologist. Nope, I'm referring to a cosmetic skincare clinic. But since I haven't found one (and if I did, I'm not sure I could afford it) I've had to take my skincare into my own hands. And you guessed it - my skincare includes needles, blades and bristles! More specifically; shaving my face, dermarolling, and washing my face with a brush.<br />
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It wasn't long ago that my skin was dry, kinda scaly, a little red, and wrinkles were showing up (but let's be real about wrinkles; I'm in my mid-30's - there's no stopping them, only slowing them down). After two people (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/radioamy/" target="_blank">@radioamy</a>, and Sherry, from <a href="http://www.younghouselove.com/" target="_blank">Young House Love</a>) sparked my curiosity in a couple of these tools, I did my research and gave them a try and believe-it-or-not these tools worked! The best part is, none of these things are expensive and they don't require an appointment.<br />
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Here's some insight into how these three tools can improve your complexion.<br />
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<b>SHAVING YOUR FACE.</b> Sounds totally weird but it's similar to derma-planing. Shaving your face removes the dead skin that can make your complexion seem dull. It also removes the "peach fuzz" that can sometimes make your makeup look funky. All-in-all, it helps your skin glow and improves your makeup application. I use <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0787GLBMV/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B0787GLBMV&linkCode=as2&tag=bethkohler-20&linkId=9877e5bea6f51316cdc0da61da60f832" target="_blank">these razor blades</a> every other week.<br />
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<b>DERMA-ROLLING </b>also known as microneedling. This seems scarier than shaving your face considering your rolling needles across your face <i>BUT </i>I promise it's not. What's actually happening is your making little punctures in your skin that are stimulating collagen production and collagen is what gives your face the soft, supple look. In addition to stimulating collagen production it also helps to reduce acne scars, fine lines and wrinkles, may reduce sun damage and pigmentation, tighten saggy skin and fades stretch marks (calling all moms!!). I use <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B073CFR8R4/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B073CFR8R4&linkCode=as2&tag=bethkohler-20&linkId=de91ec2b77d6cad6e02ddeb722b9cf8b" target="_blank">this derma roller</a> 3 nights a week.<br />
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<b>FACIAL CLEANSING BRUSH. </b>Washing my face with a facial cleansing brush is one of my favorite ways to give my face a deep clean. Using a cleansing brush a couple of nights each week helps to clean out your pores which helps to reduce the appearance of pores. No need to spend your money on an electric one, a manual brush like <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B007YSZ4WU/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B007YSZ4WU&linkCode=as2&tag=bethkohler-20&linkId=4d318c83f97b1985f0b1519395e53ec6" target="_blank">this one</a> will totally do the trick!<br />
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Here are the overall benefits I've found after doing these three things regularly:<br />
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<li>My overall complexion has improved - I know this because I get compliments from time to time.</li>
<li>Makeup application is much easier and foundation looks so much better.</li>
<li>I wear less makeup - some days are just bronzer, brows, and mascara.</li>
<li>I have more confidence.</li>
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1. ALWAYS wear a daytime lotion with an SPF. If it doesn't have an SPF leave it at the store <i>unless</i> your foundation has an SPF.</div>
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2. Save money on cleansers, spend money on serums and lotions</div>
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3. Invest in a good nighttime lotion, serum, or mask.</div>
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Give these things a try and report back!</div>
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You know that Luv's commercial where they show the mom with her first child and all of the stuff and then the third child where she's handing the baby to a dirty mechanic? That commercial is 100% accurate! I'm pretty sure that was me with my first son, Colton. Since then, I have changed so much as a mom and try to be fairly flexible and chill with my kids - except when it comes to behavior and Gabe's bedtime, my sanity relies on those two things. (Always exceptions, right?!)<br />
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I wish I would have written a blog post about what I carried in my diaper bag when Colton was a baby vs. what I carry 5 years later with Gabe - I'd bet its less stuff because I've pretty well pared it down to what I need. Not to mention the less stuff I carry, the less I have to leave behind because that's been known to happen.<br />
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So what am I carrying in my diaper bag these days? Here it is!<br />
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1. A wet bag - I bought mine on Etsy</div>
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2. A bottle pre-filled with the amount of baby water needed to mix a bottle. I use <a href="https://goto.target.com/vvN3W" target="_blank">these bottles</a>.</div>
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3. Burp rags</div>
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5. Baby Tylenol</div>
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6. Baby Wipes (even after my kids are out of diapers I will <i>always</i> have wipes on-hand!) </div>
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7. Diapers (of course)</div>
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8. <a href="https://goto.target.com/yBNLG" target="_blank">A & D Diaper Rash ointment</a></div>
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9. <a href="https://goto.target.com/4APDL" target="_blank">Neutrogena baby sunscreen</a></div>
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10. Change of clothes</div>
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11. Essential Oils roller ball for gassy tummies (doTerra DigestZen or Peppermint + doTerra Wild Orange)</div>
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12. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07Q7FH599/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B07Q7FH599&linkCode=as2&tag=bethkohler-20&linkId=f920198010be211e9aaf03e53df34188" target="_blank">Disposable Changing</a> pads from <a href="https://nenanene.com/products/disposable-changing-pads" target="_blank">Nena + Nene</a></div>
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A couple weeks back Lauren, from <a href="https://nenanene.com/products/disposable-changing-pads" target="_blank">Nena + Nene</a>, reached out to me to ask if I'd be interested in trying out the disposable changing pads she designed and let me tell you - these are awesome to have on hand and so much easier than fooling around trying to get a cloth changing pad unfolded (and refolded) and laid out on a dirty bathroom changing table while holding a baby. These also work really well if you change your baby's diaper on the living room floor like I do. Or if you find yourselves outside a lot with older kids. I'm thinking they'll work well for outside snack time for the older boys too - can you tell we never know where the day will take us?! There are 40 in a package so you can stash them anywhere you think you might use them - living room, car, bathroom, changing table...<br />
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Ok... here is a quick "mom hack" for you. Gabe likes his bottle warmed up (high maintenance baby) so if I know we are going somewhere that I wont be able to warm the bottle in hot water, I pre-warm the water in the bottle, in the microwave - just the water, not the formula. Then I put it in the insulated bottle holders in the front pocket of my diaper bag. <i>Ta-da - magic! </i>They don't stay warm all day but if you know your baby is going to need a bottle within the next hour to hour and a half it works pretty slick.<br />
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I should mention that my <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07BF5X1FJ/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B07BF5X1FJ&linkCode=as2&tag=bethkohler-20&linkId=3d168d2b3e3da6a3da9830d3fd0a5c86" target="_blank">diaper bag</a> is AWESOME! It's trendy, cute <i>and </i>practical! You can <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07BF5X1FJ/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B07BF5X1FJ&linkCode=as2&tag=bethkohler-20&linkId=3d168d2b3e3da6a3da9830d3fd0a5c86" target="_blank">buy it here</a>!<br />
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I jumped on the Essential Oils wagon and guess what?! I'm a fan! My sister initially introduced essential oils to me by gifting me a diffuser and <i>On Guard </i>Essential Oil to keep away the crud with a new baby in the house. It just so happened that I started to really enjoy diffusing oils so I bought a second diffuser through my friend Morgan who is an advocate for <a href="https://www.doterra.com/US/en" target="_blank">doTERRA Essential Oils</a>. Now I'm using them more topically and internally than I am diffusing them. Here's how...<br />
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Every morning I start off with this combo: Lemon + Grapfruit + Peppermint to detox, control cravings and support metabolism. They call this the "weight loss trio." I like the added flavor in my water so after I have one 15oz water bottle with this combo I stick to either lemon on grapefruit. The grapefruit definitely helps to control my sugar cravings - I was recently able to resist the monster cookies I made (<i>what is wrong with me?!</i>) and cut way back on popping candy in my mouth from our secret stash (<i>don't judge, you know you have one too!</i>) </div>
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Two things to keep in mind if you add oils to your water; 1. Make sure they are labeled for internal use. If they have a nutrition label on them you're good-to-go! 2. Use a glass or metal water bottle. Here is a link to my <a href="https://amzn.to/2LCdXnW" target="_blank">Sip by Swell water bottle</a>. </div>
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I have an obsession with wanting thick, long lashes. I've tried a growth serum which worked ok but I had to remember to put it on before bed and even tried lash extensions that I had removed a week later because they were so uncomfortable. I came across this idea from <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mywelloiledlife/" target="_blank">My Well Oiled Life</a> on Instagram - add a drop of each to a <i>new</i> bottle of mascara and apply it like you do every day, no extra step. I can tell a difference in my lashes - they seem a little thicker and don't seem to break off or go missing. I should also mention that <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06XDYJT6D/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B06XDYJT6D&linkCode=as2&tag=bethkohler-20&linkId=bb865e294802bf7e6fec0ce7dce12740" target="_blank">Voluminous Lash Paradise Mascara from L'Oreal</a> is Ahhh-Mazing! Pair these things together and Ta-da - Lashes for days!<br />
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Speaking of hair... I made this leave-in spray for my hair. My hair tends to get dried out and appear dull <i>and</i> I'm on the path of growing it out. This spray promotes healthy hair, growth and thickness. I spray it on my scalp morning and night and then brush through my hair. My hair has started to look a little shinier and not so dry. You can find this recipe from <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mywelloiledlife/" target="_blank">My Well Oiled Life</a> also.<br />
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A friend who I haven't seen in awhile was watching my instagram stories and sent me a message complimenting me on my clear skin. (Winning!) I've added this to <a href="http://nothingbutneutralblog.blogspot.com/2019/02/my-basic-skin-care-routine.html" target="_blank">my daily skin care routine</a>. It's 15 drops of each oil + a splash of witch hazel and filled with <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00QZ144JG/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B00QZ144JG&linkCode=as2&tag=bethkohler-20&linkId=0eb3127167e5d2c8b0d01f096274082e" target="_blank">jojoba oil</a>. I paint my face with it at night after washing and then work it in with my fingers. Then I top with my Origins Night A Mins moisturizer. It's definitely helped to reduce redness, tighten my pores and (hopefully) work on my fine lines. <br />
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This one is a recent addition to my lineup. My husband and I have started kayaking again and after 2-3 hours on the river, no matter the SPF (I wear SPF50, call me grandma) we still get a little red and our skin feels dried out. This cooling spray has been awesome! It has for sure cooled down our skin and evens helps it feel moisturized. You can find this recipe from <a href="https://www.instagram.com/essentially_joilful/" target="_blank">essentially_joilful on instagram</a>. </div>
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Just so you know, I'm not selling essential oils because I'm terrible at direct sales like this. However I am a fan of doTERRA Essential Oils. If you're interested in trying these look up my friend <a href="https://www.instagram.com/essentiallyobsessed_01/" target="_blank">Morgan on Instagram</a>. They are fun to play around with and have a quite a few benefits if you're willing to actually use them. Not to mention, if you live in the middle of nowhere like I do and don't feel like going to the store to buy a "remedy" all of the time, with a small stash of oils you can usually find something that works. </div>
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Awhile back on my Instagram stories I was talking about having to handle all the things - kids, farm chores, work, etc... - while my husband was gone for work and I asked if you'd like me to write a blog post about how I get my head in the right place to parent when my husband is gone. Here is that post.<br />
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Let me start off by saying it's hard (I admire all of you that are single moms - you amaze me). I find myself ending each day asking God, and my boys, for a little grace and forgiveness. <br />
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Figuring out how to get my head in the game to handle all of the things that motherhood, working mom and farm wife entails is a work in progress. It's one that started 5 years ago, after we were newly married and had our first baby in less than a year. I remember those early days of marriage and motherhood when I'd freak out if my husband wasn't home at the "right time" for no other reason than to be home. It was hard on him and our relationship. We fought through it and learned that the number one thing that makes the biggest difference is <i>communication</i>.<br />
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Communication. It's so simple, yet so... dang... hard. If Adam tells me that he's going to be gone, whether it's for work, late for supper, or doing farm things that are too dangerous for the boys to go with, I'm fine and can keep my act together. It's when there are surprise instances that start with "oh by the way...I'm not going to be around" that being on my own with the boys becomes a struggle.<br />
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I need him to communicate with me when he wont be around so that I can mentally prepare to handle 3 kids on my own. If I can mentally prepare, I've got my head in the right spot to be a patient mom and can put a game plan together for what our days will look, what we'll eat and if I need to rely on some friends for help. Then comes the part where I offer myself a whole lot of grace ahead of time for things like feeding my kids ridiculously easy, and at times unhealthy meals, my house being a wreck, using the TV as a babysitter, and boys up past their bedtime. And you know what?! It's completely ok if these things happen because I've learned that in these moments memories are made and this one morning, one day, or one week, wont ruin my kids.<br />
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I also try to do something special with my boys while Adam is away. This might be going out to eat at a restaurant they pick (usually McDonalds or A&W), playing at the park or we load up the big boy's bikes and Gabe's stroller to go for a walk on a local walking path.<br />
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The other part of mentally preparing is giving myself some things to look forward to like; not having to put as much effort into making meals (although I probably should), crawling into my bed early and reading a book or tackling a house project or decorating project without any interference or questions. In other words, I take the time to give myself a little re-charge by focusing on me.<br />
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As for the day-to-day communication when Adam is around we have a few "rules" that we abide by. The first is that we have a family supper at 6:30pm. If he's not going to be around, he has to let me know ahead of time, otherwise he'll be home at 6:30 so I don't need to call to check in on him. If he wont be home by supper time, he's either got to get home before 8:00pm or stay away until after 9:00pm. 8:00-8:30pm is bedtime. <b> </b>And, on weekends, one or both boys go with Adam on Saturday morning if at all possible.<br />
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So if I were to summarize all of my thoughts for you on how to get your head in the right spot to solo parent, here is what they would be:<br />
1. Communicate to avoid surprises<br />
2. Offer yourself <i>a lot</i> of grace<br />
3. Give yourself something to look forward to<br />
4. Create some family "rules"<br />
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Lastly, believe me when I tell you are both <i>SuperMom</i> (like Superman, get it?!) and a <i>SUPER-mom</i>! We're moms, we are meant to do hard things.<br />
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<br />Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-47409241883959515962019-07-05T12:33:00.000-07:002019-07-13T05:38:20.188-07:00Where to use outdoor rugs in your houseLiving on a farm, and having boys, we have so much traffic (and dirt) coming in and going out of our house. It's ridiculous. As someone who loves to decorate my home, it kills me to not have a beautiful entryway way filled with a gorgeous flat-weave rug, fresh flowers and a few throw pillows.<br />
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Although, I really did need a rug. It just had to be inexpensive, handle dirt, wear and tear, and be easy to clean. Then it finally dawned on me that an outdoor rug was the answer! It handles my kids wet stuff from the snowy winter months and the mud they drag in after a rain in the summer. When it gets dirty enough, I just take it outside and spray it off with a hose.<br />
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Not only was the outdoor rug the answer for my entryway, it was also the answer for our old farmhouse basement.<br />
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As our family grew in size, and the piles of toys have accumulated, we fixed up our farmhouse basement as a toy room. It's a little chilly down there with cement walls and floor, and has a tenancy to get a little damp following a hard rain but all-in-all it works pretty well as a toy room. <br />
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Since the basement can get a little damp, a traditional rug was not the answer for the space. They hold water and take forever to dry out which leads to a stale smell and potentially mold and mildew. The perfect solution, again, was an outdoor rug. It was inexpensive (we all know kids have the potential to ruin things) and it drys out quickly since it's made to handle the weather. <br />
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I'm sure you noticed that I have the same rug in my basement and entryway - this was a total fluke. I ordered the 5x7 rug from Target for the basement because I liked the style even though it was too small. Then the 8x10 came back in stock so naturally I snagged it and moved the 5x7 to our entryway. The UPS man <i>for sure </i> had de ja vue. Target has some pretty stylish outdoor rugs that you can usually find on sale. Bad news is that the one I have is out of stock but, I did link some of my favorites below.<br />
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Oh, and I do actually have an outdoor rug outside! The boys are often outside playing on it and sometimes we even grab a few books and pillows and find ourselves reading stories on nice summer nights. <br />
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Our living room addition has been done for just over a year and I've kind of been a weird-o about decorating the space. I guess I've learned to take my time to get it to look the way I want it to rather than spend a whole bunch of money to just be moderately happy with how it looks. However, this ledge shelf about my couch was definitely something I wanted but the thought of putting screws in my new walls kind of freaked me out because if I ever wanted to move the shelf or re-arrange the living room it would mean that I have to fill in big holes and really, who wants to do that?<br />
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Here is what the room looked like <i>before</i> the shelf was hung.<br />
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And after...<br />
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Just before my maternity leave ended and 2 days before Gabe's baptism, I got my ledge shelf. My husband said, "ok, let's make it" so I showed him the Chris Loves Julia <a href="https://www.chrislovesjulia.com/how-to-diy-an-art-ledge/" target="_blank">Ledge Shelf tutorial</a> and $30 and 45 minutes later I had my shelf. (Yep - my husband is handsome <i>and </i>handy!) Our only argument was how high above the couch to hang the shelf. He thinks anything on the wall should darn-near touch the ceiling, I believe it should be "eye-ball" height (or around 60" from the floor to the center of the print.) <br />
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The funny thing was, he assumed I had stuff to put on it. Of course I had things I could put on it but my style has evolved over time and I wanted more grown up and sophisticated artwork instead of all typography and abstract prints. I wanted the art on this ledge shelf to be interesting yet inexpensive.<br />
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Art can be super expensive, especially by the time you frame it, so I faked it. I purchased digital downloads of art and had them printed locally. My two favorite places to look for printable art are <a href="http://juniperprintshop.com/" target="_blank">Juniper Print Shop</a> and Etsy. For $20 or less per print I got the mix of art that I wanted with multiple ratio files to get the size of prints that I wanted. I sent my files to a local office center in town and for just under $40 I got 6 pieces of art printed. From there I was able to find a few frames around my house and picked up a couple of poster frames from Target. This way of getting art is seriously so smart and cost-effective!<br />
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My boys have had their grubby little fingers on the shelf and art a few times but fortunately they find it un-interesting. Except for the No. 5 print - Colton thinks it's because he's going to be fine and Adam had no idea why I would frame a "5." Well dear, it's because we have 5 people in our family. Sometimes I just shake my head.<br />
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Here are the art sources:<br />
<a href="https://juniperprintshop.com/products/saltbox-1" target="_blank">Salt Box</a><br />
<a href="https://juniperprintshop.com/products/peachy-ii" target="_blank">Peachy II</a><br />
<a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/602360336/number-five-printable-art-number-5?ref=yr_purchases" target="_blank">No. 5</a><br />
<a href="https://juniperprintshop.com/products/rosy-street-1" target="_blank">Rosy Street</a><br />
<a href="https://www.minted.com/product/art/MIN-28O-GNA/a-meditation?ccId=1920666&color=A&org=title&shape=" target="_blank">A Meditation</a><br />
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Nursery is a weird word to me. It's Gabe's <i>bedroom</i>, it's not like he's going to switch from a "nursery" to a "bedroom" at some point, it's just not possible - we are out of rooms in our house. But none-the-less, I'm titling this post <i>Gabe's Nursery</i> because that's what people go wild over. Have you ever thought about that, kinda weird huh?<br />
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Now that Gabe is over 3 months old I figured it was an appropriate time to do a little show-and-tell of his room. Actually, it's because I couldn't get my act together until now to put this post together. Taking pictures of rooms is a lot of work - lighting needs to be right, I like it to be clean, and preferably not have a sleeping child in the room - or big kids around for that matter. Well, the stars finally aligned! Ha!<br />
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His room is a pretty simple space. Mostly because it's so small, it's the second smallest room in our house, but it is one of my favorites because it's on the south side of the house so it gets so much natural light and it has an awesome plank wall that some friends and I built without telling my husband. You can read that post here.<br />
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When I was thinking about this room for our new baby I had one vision in mind - an over sized, black and white, long horn cow print and <i>ta-da! </i>I found it. I think Gabe this cow have become buddies - it's pretty cute. <br />
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The rest of the room was easy from there. We've had the same basics for all of the boys - crib, dresser/changing table, and chair - and there are very few ways to arrange the furniture.<br />
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I also wanted the room to not be too-baby so he could grow with the room and eventually all we'll have to do is take out the crib and rocking chair and add a bed.<br />
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<a href="http://goto.target.com/QxgP3" target="_blank">Crib</a><br />
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<a href="https://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/30382352/#/20360421" target="_blank">Dresser</a><br />
<a href="http://goto.target.com/3M3Pd" target="_blank">Changing Pad Cover</a><br />
<a href="http://goto.target.com/Ykxgj" target="_blank">Mirror</a><br />
<a href="http://goto.target.com/zBdqG" target="_blank">Sound Machine</a><br />
<a href="http://goto.target.com/GY5XL" target="_blank">Stool</a><br />
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Clothes Basket (<a href="http://goto.target.com/r1xQ3" target="_blank">similar</a>)<br />
Long horn cow print (sort of <a href="http://goto.target.com/MY1mo" target="_blank">similar</a>) look in stores at Hobby LobbyBethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-30753477183103520012019-05-17T09:16:00.000-07:002019-05-17T09:16:50.220-07:0036 things about me on my 36th birthday<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Today I celebrate number 36! Only 4 years until 40...yikes. In some ways I feel like I've done and accomplished a lot and in other ways I feel like I should be in a completely different place but only God knows what's in store. If you'd have asked me 10 years ago and I would have never imagined being a mom to 3 boys, living in Iowa, farming on our own and selling seed corn. I would have likely guessed I'd be a mom to girls, working as a manager in a corporate office and farming with my parents.<br />
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Anyhoo... in honor of my 36th birthday, for the fun of it, I thought I'd share 36 things that you may or <i>may not</i> know about me.<br />
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1. I grew up on a farm in Minnesota<br />
2. My parents still farm.<br />
3. I have two younger sisters<br />
4. I have a younger brother who passed away after his second birthday<br />
5. My husband and I started a first generation farm in Iowa - purebred angus cows, corn, soybeans and chickens<br />
6. I'm a mom to 3 boys #boymom<br />
7. I graduated from the University of Minnesota with a degree in Ag Education - never taught<br />
8. While I was in college, I was a member of a sorority<br />
9. ...and the University of Minnesota Homecoming Queen<br />
10. Speaking of "royalty" my two sisters and I were all crowned "1st princess" in our hometown pageant<br />
11. My favorite TV show is <i>Parenthood.</i> A close second is <i>Queer Eye.</i><br />
12. I bought my 1st house in 2008 in New Ulm, MN and completely re-decorated it. <br />
13. I lived in Cincinnati, Ohio for 1 year<br />
14. I met my husband at a sales conference for the company we were working for.<br />
15. His company bought my company and now we work for the same company again.<br />
16. I rode in an elevator with the lead singer of Metallica - with no clue who he was<br />
17. I'm convinced I hung out with the mob one time in Miami, FL<br />
18. I was in the same room with President George Bush while I was in FFA<br />
19. I am a huge Eric Church fan<br />
20. I ran for Miss Minnesota USA (it was every stereotype you can think of)<br />
21. I've never broken a bone<br />
22. I am concerned that I am not likeable or relatable<br />
23. It's totally ok if I never get sent or gifted flowers - I'm not a fan<br />
24. I'd choose the mountains instead of the ocean<br />
25. I'd love to own my own business. Not sure what that would be, maybe interior styling<br />
26. I also have an interest in opening a breakfast/lunch cafe in our super small town<br />
27. My high school job was working on a dairy farm<br />
28. I rarely take naps - just not my thing<br />
29. I would describe my style a casual. I love dressing up jeans, t-shirts and sweatshirts<br />
30. I've never smoked<br />
31. I'm a consistent user of Beachbody on Demand workouts - totally worth the subscription<br />
32. I grew up without air conditioning<br />
33. ... or cable<br />
34. I played guitar in elementary school and middle school<br />
35. The first (and last) gun I shot was in my late 20's<br />
36. I'm a pretty good cookBethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-4059265991757434032019-05-09T08:09:00.002-07:002019-05-09T08:09:52.627-07:00My Daily Habits (that keep me sane)<div>
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A week or so ago I met a new friend for coffee - it was so fun getting to know each other! During our conversation I remember her saying to me something along the lines of "you really have it all together, you're an inspiration." I was taken back by the really nice compliment. In fact, I didn't know how to respond so I just said thank you followed up by "sometimes I have to fake it."<br />
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Both things are true. I do have it together - most of the time <i>and </i>I fake it - some of the time. Fake it till you make it, right?!<br />
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That whole conversation got me thinking about my daily habits that I believe help me to "have it together" most of the time.<br />
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Before Gabe was born I started to focus on turning some daily activities that made me feel pulled together and organized into habits. After Gabe was born I kept up with these habits and they've made a difference in how <i>I </i>feel and how my family's day is positively affected. I think it's also important for my kids to see their mom be able to take of herself, her home and her family (with help from my husband of course) so they can have a solid influence for adulting someday. </div>
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I know that what I just stated could be controversial given the blog or Facebook post that's been floating around about society's expectations of a mom. I want you to know that I have never felt that way. I believe it's because my mom, and my husband's mom, set a good example for both of us growing up which were: <i>control what you can control, take care of your family, take care of yourself, be a good person. </i>(Enough of that rant, that's like a whole other blog post.)<br />
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Anyway... back to my daily habits.<br />
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Here is the list of my daily habits. Keep in mind that this is not a routine because these are not scheduled habits, I do my best to fit these things in at some point during the day. A routine would imply that these need to happen at certain time or they don't get done. Make sense?<br />
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<b>Habit 1 - Get up before 6:00am.</b> Sometimes it's 5:59 but it's before 6:00am. I need a head start on the boys or chaos become inevitable.<br />
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<b>Habit 2 - Get ready for the day.</b> That means shower, do my makeup and do my hair. I may hang out in workout clothes around home but if the rest of me is ready, I can throw on a pair of jeans and be out the door pretty quickly.<br />
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<b>Habit 3 - Eat Breakfast. </b>If I make myself breakfast I know that I've at least got one good meal in until supper time.<br />
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<b>Habit 4 - Read the First 5 app. </b>This is a good way to start the day - spending some time with God. Sometimes it's the way I end my day. Either way, I'm spending time being grateful, thankful, and asking for help.<br />
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<b>Habit 5 - Exercise.</b> This is usually 4-5 days a week. The Beachbody on Demand app has been a great time. Tabata workouts are also quick, easy and beneficial.<br />
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<b>Habit 6 - Do Dishes. </b>I always do dishes, and clean up the kitchen, after supper. I feel so much more at peace if I know that I'm waking up to a clean kitchen.<br />
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<b>Habit 7 - Play. </b>Each day I try to take some time to play or spend time with my kids. I don't do this enough so it's a habit that is in progress.<br />
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<b>Habit 8 - Pick up the House. </b>Either after the kids go to bed, or first thing in the morning, my husband and I pick up the main floor of our house. Again, it brings peace to our household and I think it teaches our boys how to respect our home and in turn, their future homes.<br />
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Here's what I want you to know... I have bad days too, where the chaos becomes too much. In fact, I had a really bad day earlier this week.<br />
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The other thing I want you to know is that if you feel like your life is chaos and you don't have it together, create a few habits for yourself. Having it together, most of the time, is possible as long as you decide what that looks like for you. Research tells us that we can form new habits in like 17-21 days. <i><b>Give it a go - you got this!</b></i></div>
Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-64784210117420753192019-04-08T08:44:00.003-07:002019-04-08T08:51:18.454-07:00My Favorite Tinted Lip BalmsI really want to like lipstick, like REALLY want to like it, but I don't. I can never find the right color, sometimes it feels tacky, and I feel like a goof putting it on needless to say re-applying it. Let's just say I'm not one to excuse myself to the bathroom after a meal just to come back to the table with a fresh coat of lipstick. I feel awkward. But I do really want to like lipstick.<br />
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But lip balm - that's where it's at! I love it and have no hesitation re-applying it anywhere and everywhere! Here are my three favorites and a snapshot of how they look on me. They are Burt's Bees Tinted Lip Balm in 'Red Dalia', Covergirl <i>Oh Sugar!</i> in 'Jelly', and Sugar <i>fresh</i> in 'Petal'. Keep in mind that lip colors, while the same color in the tube, look a little different on everyone because our natural lip colors are all a little different.<br />
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<b>BURT'S BEES - RED DALIA</b><br />
I love this one because first of all it looks like a chapstick (win!) and feels like chapstick (also win!). The color is deep and muted and doesn't come with a whole lot of shine. You can <a href="https://goto.target.com/kARa3" target="_blank">buy it here</a>.<br />
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<b>COVERGIRL </b><i><b>Oh Sugar!</b> - </i><b>Jelly</b></div>
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I discovered the <i>Oh Sugar</i> tinted lip balms on a whim a year or two ago and became a huge fan. It's like lipstick but feels like lip balm. It makes my lips feel soft and offers a great pop of color. Besides this color, I also like 01 Cupcake for a sheer gloss. The downfall is that it looks like a tube of lipstick so I'm not a public re-applier (is that a word?! and I think I just figured out what I don't love lipstick??) This line of tinted lip balms must not have been too popular because they are hard to find. Looks like <a href="https://www.amazon.com/COVERGIRL-Colorlicious-Tinted-Candy-12-packaging/dp/B01CS5WP52/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2F6VNOGZS9AO8&keywords=covergirl%2Boh%2Bsugar%2Blip%2Bbalm&qid=1554737153&s=gateway&sprefix=Covergirl%2BOh%2BSugar%2Caps%2C198&sr=8-1&th=1" target="_blank">Amazon</a> has this color available or check <a href="https://www.walgreens.com/store/c/covergirl-oh-sugar!-vitamin-infused-lip-balm/ID=prod6398816-product?skuId=sku6255886" target="_blank">Walgreens</a>! </div>
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<b>SUGAR <i>FRESH</i> - PETAL</b></div>
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This one is my favorite of the lineup, also the most expensive (probably why it's my favorite). This tinted lip balm adds the most natural looking tint to my lips and feels like silk plus it's got sunscreen in it - SPF 15. I've been on the hunt for a rosy pink and this is color was it! You can <a href="https://www.sephora.com/product/sugar-lip-treatment-spf-15-P57002?skuId=1500909&icid2=products%20grid:p57002:product" target="_blank">buy it here</a>.</div>
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If you can't tell, I stay pretty close to the same neutral-looking color pallet. While these colors work well for me, keep in mind that lipsticks and lip balms look different on nearly everyone because of the natural color of our lips. Use these colors as a starting point and then work your way up or down the color lineup until you find one you like!Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-255401739866226882019-04-05T05:21:00.000-07:002019-04-05T05:51:13.627-07:00How to Meal Plan for a Whole Month<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I'll kick this off by saying I like grocery shopping and I like cooking for my family (feeding them is a different story. I'll just say kids are tough sometimes!)<br />
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Now that you all question my level of sanity I'll get on with how I meal plan for a whole month and give you the high points of why I plan out a month at a time.<br />
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I first did this on a whim, right before Gabe was born because I knew I wasn't likely going to be taking my newborn out of the house for a couple weeks and I was getting a little bored waiting around for baby Gabe to make his appearance. Oh - and my husband said I should try it (but this is my blog and my story so let's pretend that this was all me! Kidding, kidding.) Regardless of whose idea it was <span style="font-size: xx-small;">(thanks Adam, you do know what you're talking about sometimes)</span> it worked really well! It saved time, money and my sanity as well as reduced food waste. All wins!<br />
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">Here's how it works:</span></b><br />
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First, I use this <a href="https://www.emilyley.com/pages/printables" target="_blank">Go-To Meal Ideas form</a> from Emily Ley.<br />
Next, I list out 20 meals for the month and note where to find the recipe.<br />
Then I build my grocery list.<br />
Finally, I go grocery shopping.<br />
All that's left to do is pick a meal from the list on the fridge and make it!<br />
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The interesting thing about grocery shopping is that I can spend the same amount of money if I plan for a week of meals as I do for a month of meals. Does anyone else experience that?! Needless to say, planning for a month rather than a week is definitely a money saver!<br />
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">Tips for success:</span></b><br />
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1. Cook meals with similar ingredients within 5 days to reduce food waste.<br />
2. Store what you can in the freezer until you use it, things like bread and cheese. If you don't use it all (specialty breads that work for one meal) put it back in the freezer.<br />
3. Make meals with fresh ingredients within the first week.<br />
<i>I still stop at the grocery store regularly to pick up additional fresh ingredients, milk and things I forgot.</i><br />
4. Substitute frozen fruit and vegetables when you can to save a few dollars.<br />
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In the end I plan about 20 meals to pick from. I cook breakfast and one planned meal a day for my family, even on weekends. Saturdays I cook lunch since church is at 6:30pm - we do something quick, like buttered noodles, for supper for the boys. Sundays we plan an evening meal. Sunday lunches are usually leftovers or sandwiches. For side dishes, I just list out the possibilities and pair them with a meal - no shame is making the same side dish twice in a month. Then of course there are pizza nights, date nights and other days we eat leftovers.<br />
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I should also note that we stock our freezer beef, pork and whole chickens so the only protein I purchase from the grocery store is pork chops (I buy a loin and have the meat counter cut it when they are on sale - $1.49/lb is a good sale in Iowa), bacon, lunch meat, and frozen chicken breasts. In the summer we have a garden so we freeze green beans and carrots.<br />
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I'll post my monthly meal plans to my <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nothingbutneutral/" target="_blank">Facebook page</a> so make sure to follow me there to download my list of monthly meals! You can also download my April Meal Plan <a href="https://drive.google.com/open?id=1sn0yrxtsSau2KNapOFYRanmMk2ZiRjhi" target="_blank">here.</a>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-6672268895659612682019-04-01T08:00:00.001-07:002019-04-01T08:00:41.347-07:00Super Simple Mom Makeup<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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If you look good you feel good and if you feel good you do good.<br />
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I've heard this a lot lately (thanks Queer Eye - totally obsessed with this show on Netflix!) and there is for sure truth to that statement for me. I'm a person that needs to pull myself together, even a little bit, each day. I am happier, more productive and have more energy. It's that little bit of self-care I need on a daily basis.<br />
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Since I am now a mom to three boys I've had to speed up my routine because I never know what my two big boys might get into. (Everything starts innocently enough...) My husband has even noticed that my routine has gotten a little faster!<br />
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I recorded a quick "mom-makeup" tutorial for you but I couldn't get it uploaded to blogger, so you'll have to view it on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nothingbutneutral/?ref=settings" target="_blank">my Facebook page</a>. <br />
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This super simple makeup routine will likely become my daily, back-to-work makeup routine too since it's just six products that I use. They are all liked below.<br />
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Super Simple Mom Makeup Routine Products<br />
1. <a href="https://www.origins.com/product/15352/46938/skincare/moisturize/moisturizers/ginzing/spf-40-energy-boosting-tinted-moisturizer" target="_blank">Tinted Moisturizer</a><br />
2. <a href="https://www.sephora.com/product/soft-matte-complete-concealer-P416200" target="_blank">NARS matte concealer</a><br />
3. <a href="https://goto.target.com/b0ZqM" target="_blank">ELF brow pencil</a> (I use Taupe)<br />
4. <a href="https://www.youniqueproducts.com/beautybymimi/products/view/US-21102-00#.XKImc1VKhtQ" target="_blank">Younique Epic Mascara</a><br />
5. <a href="https://www.target.com/p/covergirl-cheekers-blush/-/A-14920149?preselect=52247765#lnk=sametab" target="_blank">Covergirl Cheekers Blush</a> (I use pretty peach)<br />
6. <a href="https://www.sephora.com/product/sugar-lip-treatment-spf-15-P57002?skuId=1500909&icid2=products%20grid:p57002:product" target="_blank">Sugar Tinted Lip Balm</a> (I use Petal)<br />
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Check out my skincare routine in<a href="http://nothingbutneutralblog.blogspot.com/2019/02/my-basic-skin-care-routine.html" target="_blank"> this post</a>.<br />
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And by <i>we</i> I mean Gabe and I. Well actually, truth be told, if mom and Gabe are happy, <i>everyone</i> is happy so that means the whole family likes what we like!<br />
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If you are just tuning in, Gabe is my third baby boy. One would think I'd sorta have a clue as to what I'm doing with a baby or I'd at least have all of the stuff, but I'm always learning. I am however more relaxed with a baby and by relaxed I mean I know that just because my baby is fussing doesn't mean that he has a chronic illness.<br />
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Between Hank (3) and Gabe being born there seem to have been a few new baby "inventions" that have come to market and a few new things I've discovered to be helpful with a new baby around. In an effort to help out any mama's-to-be I've created a list of baby things we love right now. All of the items are linked below!<br />
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First, this <a href="http://momsoncall.com/product/moms-on-call-basic-baby-care-0-6-months/" target="_blank">Moms on Call book</a> is an awesome reference book. I've read a baby care type book before each of my boys were born. This one has been my favorite. Some of the ideas and items we are using, and working, came from this book. FYI... it's not a read front-to-back sort of book. It's more of a reference book.<br />
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Two of the things I'm using with Gabe that top my list of things we love are the <a href="http://goto.target.com/zBdqG" target="_blank">Hatch Rest sound machine</a> and <a href="http://goto.target.com/yBNLG" target="_blank">A&D Diaper Rash cream</a>. <br />
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The Hatch Rest sound machine is awesome! You can control it with your phone, it can act as a night light and eventually be set up as an "ok-to-wake" light. This has been a great tool to help Gabe sleep, especially since we have two big boys that don't quite understand BE QUIET yet. I may actually get another sound machine like this for the big boys.<br />
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The A&D Diaper Rash cream is like gold. Why did I stick with the other brands before?! I love this stuff. Gabe is a little bit of a pooper so we've already experienced some mild diaper rash. This stuff clears it right up. It's a vasaline-type consistency so it creates a protective barrier between the poo and baby's bum as well as heals. During Gabe's bedtime routine I slather some of this on his little butt cheeks to keep that little bum clear. On a side note; the smell of this stuff is so familiar. This must have been the stuff my mom used for my sisters. Strange that a diaper rash cream would take me back to my childhood. Do you ever experience that with smells?<br />
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Next up, I am a huge fan of the <a href="https://snugglemeorganic.com/collections/snuggle-me-organic/products/moss-snuggle-me-lounger" target="_blank">Snuggle Me Organic</a>. I kept seeing these on Instagram and decided to give it a try. Gabe sleeps pretty well in it. It's designed so they can't roll and makes them feel like they are being held since it has a false bottom. It's a little spendy but I'm glad I made the investment. The color I got is "Moss."<br />
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It only took me 3 babies but I've learned the importance of swaddling babies. I used to think it seemed like some sort of cruel and unusual punishment but did you know that it's actually calming to babies from newborn - 3 months old? (You probably did.) I learned from the Moms On Call book that babies aren't able to control their reflexes so they startle themselves awake. Swaddling helps to keep them sleeping because their reflexes are under control. I had no idea. Since I'm not very good at swaddling with a blanket, I cheated and bought these <a href="http://goto.target.com/m0d0O" target="_blank">SwaddleMe swaddles</a>. They work the same and don't require all kinds of fancy tucking.<br />
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A couple of other noteworthy mentions. I opted for a backpack diaper bag. This is the ticket. So much easier to carry with children in tow. I got <a href="https://www.amazon.com/HaloVa-Multi-Function-Waterproof-Backpack-Capacity/dp/B071RLWKGQ/ref=sr_1_6?crid=1GRTB46KUVJAX&keywords=land%2Bdiaper%2Bbackpack&qid=1553718662&s=gateway&sprefix=Land%2BDiaper%2Caps%2C290&sr=8-6&th=1" target="_blank">this one</a>. <br />
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For Christmas, my mother-in-law gave me a package of newborn-3 month <a href="http://goto.target.com/rBdBD" target="_blank">baby socks</a> by Gerber and believe it or not these socks actually stay on my baby! <br />
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Finally, I've been liking the <a href="http://goto.target.com/LWkWo" target="_blank">Dove Baby Body Wash</a> and <a href="http://goto.target.com/5xJx3" target="_blank">Lotion</a>. I use the sensitive, fragrance free. It's keeps Gabe's skin soft all day. My sister is using it for her toddler and likes it as well!<br />
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There you have it, simple things that have saved our sanity.... so far.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Baby Things We Love:</b></span><br />
1. <a href="http://momsoncall.com/product/moms-on-call-basic-baby-care-0-6-months/" target="_blank">Moms on Call Basic Baby Care: 0-6 months Book</a><br />
2. <a href="http://goto.target.com/zBdqG" target="_blank">Hatch Rest Sound Machine</a><br />
3. <a href="http://goto.target.com/yBNLG" target="_blank">A&D Diaper Rash Cream</a><br />
4. <a href="https://snugglemeorganic.com/collections/snuggle-me-organic/products/moss-snuggle-me-lounger" target="_blank">Snuggle Me Organic</a><br />
5. <a href="http://goto.target.com/m0d0O" target="_blank">SwaddleMe Swaddles</a><br />
6. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/HaloVa-Multi-Function-Waterproof-Backpack-Capacity/dp/B071RLWKGQ/ref=sr_1_6?crid=1GRTB46KUVJAX&keywords=land%2Bdiaper%2Bbackpack&qid=1553718662&s=gateway&sprefix=Land%2BDiaper%2Caps%2C290&sr=8-6&th=1" target="_blank">Diaper Bag</a><br />
7. <a href="http://goto.target.com/rBdBD" target="_blank">Gerber Newborn Socks</a><br />
8. <a href="http://goto.target.com/LWkWo" target="_blank">Dove Baby Wash</a><br />
9. <a href="http://goto.target.com/5xJx3" target="_blank">Dove Baby Lotion</a><br />
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Cheers!<br />
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<br />Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-35379314950470978212019-03-25T06:04:00.001-07:002019-03-25T06:04:25.309-07:00March FavoritesHow are we in the last week of March?! This brings good news and bad news. Bad news... I'm halfway maternity leave. Good news... warmer weather and sunshine is on its way!! Woohoo!<br />
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Here is my March edition of favorite things I've discovered throughout the month. They are so good that they are worth sharing! I've linked all of the items to make them easy for you to shop.<br />
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1. <a href="https://goto.target.com/LW3Mo" target="_blank">Strawberry Guava Diet Coke</a><br />
2. <a href="https://goto.target.com/PWNMN" target="_blank">Rose Water Soothing Facial Mist</a><br />
3. <a href="https://www.ulta.com/soft-matte-complete-concealer?productId=xlsImpprod15692183" target="_blank">NARS Soft Matte Concealer</a><br />
4. <a href="https://www.sephora.com/product/sugar-lip-treatment-spf-15-P57002?skuId=1500909&icid2=products%20grid:p57002:product" target="_blank">Sugar Tinted Lip Balm</a><br />
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Here's why I love these things...<br />
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The <b>Strawberry Guava Diet Coke</b> was a random find because I felt weird at the tiny grocery store in our hometown buying an itty bitty bottle of thyme seasoning and a pint of whipping cream with my debit card because I know they have to pay a transaction fee so I grabbed this diet coke. It was SO GOOD that I bought more at Walmart the next day.<br />
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I found the <b>Rose Water Soothing Facial Mist</b> on a whim one day too. It's good. It smells good, feels good and adds just enough moisture and shine to freshen up my makeup throughout the day. I keep it in the bathroom and spray it on nearly every time I pass it. I also brought it to the hospital with me when I had Gabe... it was nice to feel fresh when you sit in a hospital room for a day or two.<br />
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Last week I was going through our bathroom cupboard and came across a sample of the <b>NARS soft matte concealer</b> and thought "what the hell, let's give it a try today" and I fell in love with it. It feels soft and silky, not greasy, hardly creases and stays put all day long. So naturally, I bought some. <br />
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And, while I was waiting for the gal in the store to help me pick out the right shade of concealer I found the <b>Sugar Tinted Lip Balm.</b> I'm definitely more of a lip balm kind of gal. (I really want to love lipstick but don't.) I bought mine in the color <i>Petal. </i>It's the perfect combination of color and moisture. I'll likely have more colors over time or at least another tube of <i>Petal</i><b style="font-style: italic;"> </b>so I can keep one at home and one in my truck/purse.<br />
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Report back with what you try - I'm curious if you'll like these things as much as I do!<br />
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PS... If you want to give the concealor or tinted lip balm a try sign up for <a href="https://www.ebates.com/r/LAUWAG3?eeid=28187" target="_blank">ebates here</a>. You can get 4% cash back at Ulta or Sephora, depending on where you like to shop. I use it all the time. (you'll get a few emails here and there that usually got to junk mail but you ALWAYS get your cash back.)Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-86675939906590234352019-03-21T08:27:00.001-07:002019-03-21T08:33:54.233-07:00Meet Gabe<span style="font-size: large;"><i>Gabe is here!</i></span><br />
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He arrived on February 15 weighing in at 8lbs 3oz of cuteness, officially making me a #boymom. We named him Gabe Lawrence. Gabe because it was short, traditional and there was no mistaking that he is a boy (yes, we're simple folk like that) and Lawrence for Adam's grandpa. I think it has a good ring to it. It will roll off my tongue really well at some point when I need to get his attention.<br />
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Adam and I always wait until the baby is born to find out if we'll be raising and boy or girl and we were fully prepared to be raising a girl (totally bought girl stuff) - just guessing based on the pregnancy. We were all surprised, even the doctor, when she announced "It's a ... boy!" I think we both said in sync, "A boy?!" and from there everything felt perfect and right with the world.<br />
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Once the doctors and nurses had cleared the room and it was just Adam, Gabe, and I, I said to Adam, "Aren't you so proud that we are parents to 3 healthy boys?" With watery eyes filled with pride and joy he said "Oh-my-gosh, yes!" and then followed up with "but I feel bad for you that we wont have a girl for you to get to do your stuff with." I think he was concerned about me feeling lonely down the road when the boys grow up. That's not the feeling at all, I'm excited to have all boys - I was meant to raise boys.<br />
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The hardest part of having Gabe was that his brothers couldn't come into the OB to meet him (they got to meet him thru the window) due to flu season. I was crushed. I was sad for Colton because he wanted to be with me so bad, his big heart was worried about his mama being in the hospital and he wanted to be there with me to keep me company. I was sad for Hank because this would be his only chance to meet his new sibling in the hospital. But, I did get to hug and kiss the big boys outside of the OB and spend a little time with them running around, checking out what the hospital had to offer. (I'm crying right now. This still makes me really sad.) Fortunately the excitement was not lost by the time we got home.<br />
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Leaving the hospital with Gabe was a little surreal knowing that was the last time I'd experience the magic of delivering a baby and the last time I'd walk out of The Birth Place with a new baby because Gabe is the last baby we plan to have. After we got Gabe loaded in the truck to take him home the nurse, Sue, gave me a big hug. It's as if she knew it would be the last time we'd likely see each other.<br />
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I love this sweet boy so much and I love having a newborn baby! But, if I start talking crazy about having another one (because clearly I've forgotten how uncomfortable and crabby I was during pregnancy) - someone please throw some cold water on my face. I know that once we are out of diapers (again) and everyone is eating table food and playing together <strike>nicely</strike> I'll love the phase we are in.<br />
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The transition to 3 boys has been easier than expected. Actually, going from 2 kids to 3 kids has been easier than 1 kid to 2 kids so mama's there is hope. Don't get discouraged. I've also got to throw in there that Gabe is a really good baby. I'd mention the things he's doing really well but I'm not going to jinx it. Sorry.<br />
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PS... I took Gabe's newborn pictures myself. This is a shameless humble brag because I'm really pleased with how they turned out. :)<br />
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Cheers!Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837897618630001568.post-54600440713900672032019-03-11T07:24:00.000-07:002019-03-11T07:24:23.631-07:00How I'm Embracing Lent This yearLent is here which is the time of year that us Catholics give something up to reflect Jesus' time facing temptation in the desert.<br />
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Curious what I gave up?<br />
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Buying clothes for myself.<br />
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Pretty simple, right?! Except that I <i>love </i>clothes and the temptation is in front of me <i>every day</i> thanks to Instagram and all of the beautiful gals (whom I'd love to look like. <i>temptation.) </i>who directly link exactly what they are wearing. I feel like I've begun to allow clothes to reflect who I am. But, do they really define who I am? That's what I need to spend lent figuring out.<br />
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I'm sure everyone has something like this that grabs a hold of us and temps us by saying, "just do it," "you can afford it," "who cares."<br />
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So what do I do when this temptation arises? I turn it into something good that will strengthen my relationship with God - I pray. Just a simple sentence or two which might be asking Him to give me strength to resist the temptation or often I find myself praying for someone else by offering up the "sacrifice" of a new shirt for me in return for a blessing that someone else needs.<br />
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It only took me 35 years to figure out that this is what this season of Lent is all about and I learned it through a book by Matthew Kelly called <i>Resisting Happiness. </i>In chapter 6, on page 65, there is one sentence that sums this up: <u>"Everything can be transformed into a prayer."</u><br />
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Do you know how many times I've used this?! Too many to count. I use it to help me get through tough conversations, mundane tasks that I hate like laundry or loading the dishwasher. The best part is that it works. I once offered up that uneasy feeling I had about a business conversation I knew could go sound in prayer for someone who needed it. Guess what?! Everyone won! The business conversation went fine and I prayed for someone who needed it. Transforming a temptation into prayer is a perfect alternative to saying "oh well, who cares, just do it."<br />
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In addition to giving something up and transforming my temptation into prayer I am also participating in a program by <i><a href="https://dynamiccatholic.com/" target="_blank">Dynamic Catholic</a> </i>called <i>Best Lent Ever.</i> It's a daily video message with a "Focus. Act. Pray." component. It also follows the book <i><a href="https://dynamiccatholic.com/the-biggest-lie-in-the-history-of-christianity-free-copy" target="_blank">The Biggest Lie in the History of Christianity.</a></i> So far I love it! You can <a href="https://dynamiccatholic.com/best-lent-ever" target="_blank">sign up here</a>.<br />
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A couple of other books worth reading over the next (less than) 40 days are <i><a href="https://dynamiccatholic.com/resisting-happiness-free-copy" target="_blank">Resisting Happiness</a></i> and <i><a href="https://dynamiccatholic.com/rediscover-jesus-free-copy" target="_blank">Rediscover Jesus.</a> </i>Both are such easy and engaging reads to help you re-connect. I liked both titles to free copies for you.<br />
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So... giving up buying clothes for myself isn't as shallow as it originally sounded.<br />
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I'm just barely sneaking in this month's favorites into this month. Yikes!<br />
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But, since we had a baby (yep the baby is here - I'll introduce you next week) I've been busy cuddling and chillin'. It feels awesome!<br />
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Ok - prior to my blogging hiatus I started this series of my monthly favorite things and thought I'd bring it back because if you're like me you can easily find yourself getting into cool finds and recommendations. I'm also giving away one of my favorite things this month so read to the end to find out how to enter!<br />
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<b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B079PWHZCG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1" target="_blank">Jade Roller.</a> </b>I love this discovery, apparently it's the in thing and after using it daily for the past month I can see why - It totally wakes up your face in the morning! The cool feeling of the roller relieve puffiness, increases blood flow to your face and can help reduce wrinkles over time. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B079PWHZCG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1" target="_blank">Click here</a> to snag the one I bought.<br />
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<b><a href="https://goto.target.com/c/1195061/81938/2092?u=https%3A%2F%2Fgoto.target.com%2Fc%2F1195061%2F81938%2F2092%3Fu%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.target.com%252Fp%252Fhershey-s-special-dark-chocolate-almond-nuggets-classic-bag-10-56oz%252F-%252FA-52158674" target="_blank">Tazo Wild Sweet Orange Tea.</a> </b>My sister introduced me to <a href="https://goto.target.com/c/1195061/81938/2092?u=https%3A%2F%2Fgoto.target.com%2Fc%2F1195061%2F81938%2F2092%3Fu%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.target.com%252Fp%252Fhershey-s-special-dark-chocolate-almond-nuggets-classic-bag-10-56oz%252F-%252FA-52158674" target="_blank">this tea</a> while she was here at the end of January and I've been addicted ever since. I'm not a coffee drink but still like hot drinks on a cold day. I run hot water thru my Keurig, let this steep for 5 minutes and add a few drops of vanilla flavored Sweet Drops and you've got yourself a great morning or afternoon pick-me-up.<br />
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<b><a href="https://shop.nordstrom.com/s/zella-3-pack-low-profile-socks/4319819?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=white" target="_blank">Zella Low Profile Socks.</a> </b>I originally bought these per a recommendation from Honey We're Home blog and was skeptical about how they would work. Now I'm a proud owner of one pair for ever day of the week. These low profile socks don't show with your sneakers (or most any shoes) and actually stay on all day. They are a little spendy at $21 for 3 pairs but they are worth the splurge. Buy them <a href="https://shop.nordstrom.com/s/zella-3-pack-low-profile-socks/4319819?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=white" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
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<b><a href="https://goto.target.com/c/1195061/81938/2092?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.target.com%2Fp%2Fhershey-s-special-dark-chocolate-almond-nuggets-classic-bag-10-56oz%2F-%2FA-52158674" target="_blank">Hershey's Dark Chocolate.</a> </b>I have a sweet tooth that came from my dad and I've needed a way to curb it without scarfing down all of the cookies my oldest son, Colton, and I make on the regular. <a href="https://goto.target.com/c/1195061/81938/2092?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.target.com%2Fp%2Fhershey-s-special-dark-chocolate-almond-nuggets-classic-bag-10-56oz%2F-%2FA-52158674" target="_blank">These chocolates</a> have been just what I needed as a healthier option.<br />
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I've got to say - THANK YOU - for sticking with me and reading my blog again so in honor of that I am going to give away the Jade Roller in the picture below because I know you will love it as much as I do. </div>
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The good news is that the end is in sight, we are (hopefully) less than two weeks away from meeting our baby which has got me thinking about a few things I'm really looking forward to post-pregnancy.<br />
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<b>1 // Cuddling a new baby. </b>Really, enough said here. Oh and finding out if we'll add another boy to our family or navigate a new adventure with a little girl.<br />
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<b>2// A new wardrobe. </b>I am SO tired of my current clothing situation. I don't think I'll care if I see another plain colored, long-sleeve shirt or cardigan for the next year! You should see our laundry piles right now, mine is pretty minimal since I keep wearing the same thing over and over...and over, making my husband's pile look like Mount Everest. All of my clothes will be new to me and of course I've bought a few things recently that I'm looking forward to wearing - like these jeans and this sweater.<br />
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<b>3// Exercise. </b>I don't think I've exercised even 1 day during this third trimester. I've stayed really active - no choice with two boys - but haven't done any scheduled exercise. This is taking a toll on my mental health so I'm looking forward to getting back at it as soon as my body is ready. I follow these two gals - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/rachelmarthaler/" target="_blank">Rachel</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/karicarpenter1/" target="_blank">Kari</a> - who have given me tons of inspiration to get back at it! Give them a follow!<br />
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<b>4// A drink. </b>Yep - I need to take the edge off. My husband would likely agree. Not that I <i>need</i> to drink but sometimes is just nice to have a little at-home, Friday, happy hour or have a drink when we get to go out for dinner. The Palm Breeze I put in my fridge 9 months ago is calling my name.<br />
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<b>5// Not working. </b>It's true, I'd be lying if I said I'll miss work. I'm sure eventually I will miss work, but I'll be back at it soon enough. For now, I'll try to think of maternity leave as a little vacation that will hopefully allow me to catch up with some long-lost friends, finish up a couple of small house projects, and enjoy my family without feeling pulled in different directions. Sorry to my customer's who might read this, don't take offense - you'll see me again soon enough!<br />
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What did you look forward to most post-pregnancy? Comment below!Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02069062385274716957noreply@blogger.com0